The Power of a Kind Word

Yesterday on the tube, a woman came in with her little boy. He rushed to sit down, and almost immediately she took off his shoes. Soon after, he began banging on the window. I realised he was autistic.

I had my earphones in not because of the child, but because I was editing a video. Still, the mother kept apologising. I smiled and told her, “He’s not bothering me at all.” But as I looked at her, I saw exhaustion written all over her face.

At that moment, I had a choice either mind my own business or step into her world for just a little while. I chose to engage. We started talking, and before long we were both laughing like old friends, sharing parenting struggles and realising we had more in common than we thought. I literally saw her face brighten as the weight lifted off her shoulders.

As I got off, I turned to her and said: “Mama, you’re doing a fantastic job. Be proud of yourself.” She smiled, and I could tell those words meant something. As I walked away, I was reminded of Proverbs 25:11: “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” A simple word of encouragement can lift a heavy heart and bring light into someone’s darkness.

Here’s the truth: parenting isn’t easy. Parenting a child with unique needs is even harder. Many parents carry silent battles, and the world doesn’t always make it easier for them. Sometimes, all they need is a little kindness, a listening ear, or a simple word of encouragement to remind them they are not alone.

Never underestimate the power of encouragement. What feels small to you may be the lifeline someone else needs. The kindness you offer may be exactly what God uses to strengthen another weary heart.